I had some experience with abuse as a young child. Victims are shamed in our culture, so I couldn’t talk to anyone. I had to deal with it myself. I had to grow out of it. Black Cat Coffee Company Poster. I tried to cope by reading books about the human brain. I learned how to heal, and move on, and not be bitter. Only later did I discover that all this was something called ‘psychology.’ I only wanted to get to the point where I didn’t feel shame anymore. And the more I learned, the more I became determined to feel comfortable with sex. I joined sex forums online. I experimented. Eventually I learned so much that I decided to become an educator. I’ve moderated about fifteen discussions so far. I call it: ‘The Sex Talk.’
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I’ve spoken at church groups. I’ve spoken at schools. And it’s taken a lot of courage. Because people in this country think that if you’re speaking about it, you’re encouraging it. Black Cat Coffee Company Poster. But I think secrecy is what’s harmful. Why not explain sex to kids? We show them how to do everything else. They need to know that these feelings are natural, and that they have a brain to keep them in check. Either we educate people about sex, or they’ll be confused by it. And if they’re confused by it, they’ll be shamed by it. And if they’re shamed by it they’ll be controlled by it.