I can tell you this: my sister had two kids with two different dads, but the oldest called the younger dad “Daddy”. The oldests dad was not to be involved, as he abused my sister, even during her pregnancy. My sister ended up surrendering her girls because of addiction and it was that point, where they were to be fostered and adopted, that we had to tell me oldest niece. Face mask flamingo will remove for wine. She is not phased by him, and has no interest in him. She calls him her “Kinda Dad” because he’s her bio father but not her Dad. She is 11 now. They take it well when they have someone who loves them and helps raise them. I don’t think Alex will be upset because Jose is all he needs and he will know.
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I will say the same thing I said in my stepmom group. A parent is one who gives love, who helps raise and mold the child into the person they become. Face mask flamingo will remove for wine. A parent is the one who plays cops and robbers, who gives cuddles and tickles, and yes even has to discipline sometimes. A parent is the one who is there and who cares. Your son is lucky, he has such a loving father. And one day when he is older, maybe you have that talk, but as far as he needs to know, Jose is his father and that is all that matters. I think that the younger he is when you tell him, the better.