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She doesn’t remember that conversation so there’s no trauma. It’s just something that she has always known. Best to tell him sooner, rather than later. We emphasised how Daddy chose her, and that makes their relationship special. She adores him. Please tell him now (or soon). Michael keaton Beetlejuice poster. There are LOTS of good resources in the adoption world for how to do this. The more you normalize this now, the less harm it will do overall. My youngest son was left a fire station by his birth mom. He has known this since he was old enough to know anything. He’s 17 now and although I know he worries about his birth family and has to feel loss from it, it is not something that he struggles with. Listen I’ve had my dad since I was 3 years old.

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He’s 87 now and I’ve never thought of him any other way except as my dad. He has never treated me as a step daughter and I’ve never thought of him as a step dad. His love for me, my mom and siblings has always been authentic. It’s ok. I’m so happy for you guys. Michael keaton Beetlejuice poster. Jose is his Dad. Somewhere out there is a biological father he may or may not search out in time and no matter what comes of it he’ll return to Mom and Dad. It’s not extraordinary to produce a child. It’s extraordinary to commit to them no matter what unconditionally and that is the parent. The DNA means nothing after that.